i’ve learned that if you grease yourself up enough (VERY important that you’re greasy enough); you can just canon ball your way through. lol

I used to be like this, but it was a social anxiety thing. People say wrong and insulting things all the time without loosing friends. The key is keeping an open mind and being willing to admit when you’re wrong. If your intentions weren’t to cause harm, most people will forgive your faux pas.