There is more than one way to ‘skin a cat’ as they say. Just because a specific ‘setup’ is common and appreciated by most, does not mean it is the best solution for all.

Balance is paramount, communication is key. When it goes awry, there is something up in the relationship. Talks to have, problems to solve. When you stop doing that, is when things start to get difficult, fall apart.

Talk to your friend, do not be afraid to ask about it - see if you can help, if you want.

Please share! This is on my list of things to learn

Normal people do this in their heads

Ask questions, like “How did you interpret what I said?”. Neutral and always non-confrontational. Make sure it’s an open question, so no yes/no answers.

That will help you understand their thought process and figure out a more effective way to explain yourself to that person. Maybe even in general.

Are you guys really that stupid? Nature, ah, finds a way. It’s called evolution.

Contact admins and nothing else. This post will likely be removed.

And then the lady has the same name as your dog…

European indeed. I can imagine that wizards on other continents have less pleasurable experiences.

There is nothing wrong with paying taxes when you’re part of a society. You use the amenities, so you pay your part.

Stop acting like it’s something bad. True wizards know living alone isn’t fun, nor wise.