I use Garuda, you just install the Nvidia version and the updater handles updates automatically whenever you run it.

Easy peasy.

Xfce user, here to represent!

I love it and haven’t had any trouble. Try it out!

Look for kindness. Look for a group trying to build something for others, not just tear something down or personal gain.

Married, happy, and doing financially ok (house paid off but no real savings). Life would have been a lot harder with kids.

There are no roles, only consequences. The real question here is what are the consequences, and we can’t know that.

Start looking at jobs at your local city and county governments. A lot of them still come with actual pensions.

As I near 50 my plan if I ever have to date again is just to wear a pin with my age and “single” on it and if anyone wants to know more they can ask.