Threaten my family before he does so the maga person has noone to threat

Find out his home address, pour gasoline at the exits around 3am, light it, throw a molotov throw the master bedroom window, and shoot him with your shotgun when he tries to evacuate.

(Please remember that this is shitty advice. Or is it?)

Since this is shittyask:

First ask him in a date. If at first you don’t succeed, offer your wife as a tribute.