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Cake day: June 4th, 2023

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  • After a long, unhealthy relationship, I ended up in a very promising relationship.

    It took many years if half truths to her, and then full disclosures, and eventually, a full and total disclosure of my past, my desires, my weaknesses, the whole lot.

    She barely flinched. She saw me for who I was / am.

    From that moment we bonded deeper than I’ve ever thought possible.

    Nobody could hijack us. Nothing could try to surprise us and derail / damage us. Shame was thrown out the window. There is none. We know everything. We meet as honestly as is possible each day.

    Do it. I highly recommend it. However, there was a right time. If we’d done it too early, we wouldn’t have worked.

    So with that backstory. Always telling the truth to my partner. No matter how scary it seems.

    Truth, truth, truth.














  • “What we are witnessing right now is the death of the free internet and the birth of a new digital dictatorship. No longer can we be trusted to decide for ourselves what content is appropriate or correct. Everything must instead be filtered through the state’s definition of ‘safety,’ telling us what is safe to say, see, or believe. Under the guise of protecting children and fighting ‘hate,’ governments are creating the most comprehensive censorship apparatus the West has ever seen.”



  • Not a quick one, but when I first met a girl I liked once, I’d say “damn your hair looks beautiful today”. Or, another day “wow, your dress is really beautiful”.

    What I was really saying is, “you are beautiful”.

    She knew it.

    Didn’t take too long. We both became available.

    Made the move.

    Married her in time!

    Cheesy can do it. So can subtle.